Originally Posted by daisy

Thank you! It was a hard decision, but even Church of Christ does not allow instruments or anything in church. Funny story, my pastor before I left the church had a daughter that got married in the church. She was a friend of ours and she shocked us all at the end of the service. All the songs during the service were acapella, but at the very end she had the sound person, also a friend of hers, play a recorded musical version of Hallelujah! Boy that was the talk of the town for weeks! Went behind the entire church's views!

Originally Posted by Dr. Z.

I think as we get older, individual faith plays a role vs. an institutional body. I take that view when seeking someone. So I don't look for the label of what religion they are. I look at how their personal values and mores complements mine. She can be any faith. I don't have to follow the same faith as her, nor I hers. As long as we can respect each others choices.